| INTRODUCTIONThis article is used for discovering | | | | clothes and get a new wardrobe and become a new |
| our needs from life, our desires for where we want | | | | person, an excelling person who loves his/her life? |
| to be and who we want to become. Remember life | | | | Write down all the things that you would like to do if |
| is not about finding out who we are but about | | | | everything you did was totally successful. List them |
| creating who we want to become, the things we will | | | | all and leave nothing out. Nothing is too silly or mad or |
| leave behind with our team, our family and our | | | | impossible for this exercise. What would you do? |
| friends.FOR EVERYBODY?You may or may not be | | | | Think about it. Write it down.3. So by now you should |
| suprised to hear that not everyone in this world is | | | | have two lists and be able to see yourself doing |
| always aware of how they fit into their community | | | | them in your minds eye very vividly and colourful and |
| or what they want to do with themselves. There are | | | | bright. If not just spend some time looking over the |
| many people who have such amazing minds and can | | | | lists and practice seeing yourself already accomplishing |
| accomplish so many things yet they are never sure | | | | the things noted down. Notice how the pictures look |
| of what direction in life they would like to take.From | | | | in your mind and how that makes you feel.4. In this |
| our studies of excellence and successful people we | | | | step you need to go through your lists and pick out |
| can see that each person who considers themselves | | | | just 5 things that will affect your life for the better. |
| to be successful and peaceful within themselves all | | | | That will move you towards your goal of who you |
| have this outcome for who they want to be in life. In | | | | want to become and give you the results you truly |
| fact it goes a step further than that because they | | | | deserve. Carefully consider each item and weigh up |
| not only know who or what they want to become | | | | the time lines before committing to it as a goal for |
| but they can describe it to you in explicit detail. They | | | | your life. Select just 5 things so that you can give |
| have images and sounds in their minds that | | | | complete time and energy and remain focused on |
| accurately show them what they are going towards | | | | pursuing your lifes outcome.This four step process |
| and with this they build a tenacious resolve deep | | | | will enable us to identify the meaning of who we |
| inside to become this all successful human being. Even | | | | want to become and give us the images in our minds |
| before they achieve their successes, on their way | | | | of what life will be like when we have accomplished |
| down the road to their various goals they experience | | | | them. There are some important factors when |
| comfort and total peace of mind as they are getting | | | | establishing our lifes outcome which need to be |
| closer to that dream with every passing minute.TRUE | | | | addressed if we are to remain juiced about it or stay |
| SUCCESSWalter Disney is known as a famous | | | | motivated about it through the duration of acquiring |
| cartoonist and for making Disney World and | | | | the changes and the desired results. These factors |
| Disneyland. His dream was to become a cartoonist | | | | can easily be remembered as follows:i) Stated |
| and he made his dream come true. Not only did it | | | | positively in terms of what we want. The human |
| come true but DisneyWorld today is one of the | | | | mind does not comprehend negatives. What do I |
| most renowned and spectacular cartoon producers | | | | mean by this? Well for example try not noticing the |
| ever! That is the product of knowing your outcome. | | | | sensation in your stomach right now, or try not |
| In fact not to long ago at a news conference a | | | | thinking of the colour blue. Its pretty much impossible |
| reporter asked representatives of DisneyWorld what | | | | because you first have to know what it is you are |
| they thought Walt would have said about Disney | | | | not thinking about the then replace it with something |
| World today. Their reply was along the lines of - | | | | else. The human mind works using positives so dont |
| "What do you mean? He saw it first!". They realised | | | | state goals such as I dont want to smoke anymore. |
| that it was all made possible because of one mans | | | | Rather state something like I want to become a |
| dream and in that dream he saw exactly what he | | | | healthy vibrant individual with lots of energy and |
| was going to produce - his very own Disney | | | | passion for life. Stating it this way and using this to |
| World.Another example of this is Bill Gates. From the | | | | form your images of your desired results will |
| very beginning Bill always knew his personal outcome. | | | | drastically increase your chances of achieving your |
| He wanted to come up with some software that | | | | lifes outcome.ii) Described in sensory based language. |
| would be used to run every computer in the entire | | | | Now that we have stated our outcome in positive |
| world. Some dream! Did he make it come true? Well I | | | | language we can now ask "What will I see, hear and |
| think we can safely say yes he did because MS Dos | | | | feel when I have my outcome?". Doing this will help |
| and the Windows operating systems have been | | | | us to realise when we have fully realised our desires |
| implemented on more than 95% of the worlds | | | | for our life. Close your eyes briefly and see the |
| computers. How amazing is that? He didnt even | | | | pictures of what it will be like when you achieve your |
| come up with the software to begin with, he | | | | desired outcome. Listen carefully to your surroundings |
| purchased the Dos system from IBM in the early | | | | as you realise your goal and see how that makes |
| days for little over 35, 000 dollars and now hes the | | | | you feel inside. Doing this will setup your nervous |
| richest man alive. That is some by-product of one | | | | system to continually look forward to achieving the |
| teenagers dream.STRATEGYHowever, before we | | | | goals and drives you towards them until achieved.iii) |
| can see our lifes dream come around like our friends | | | | Self initiated and self controlled. Although you can |
| Walt Disney and Bill Gates, there is a need to | | | | control your own mind and emotions you cannot |
| establish what our desired outcome really is. Where | | | | control those of others. So, for example, it would be |
| do we want to be? Who do we want to become? | | | | futile to base outcomes on changing your spouse or |
| What is it in life that is really that important to us? | | | | parent(s). You must be in control of your desired |
| We need an answer to these questions to grow in | | | | outcome and only you can know how and when to |
| life, its vital to have direction in order to feel | | | | achieve it.iv) Appropriately contextualized. We need |
| fulfilment and real satisfaction in your life.So lets get | | | | to build our outcomes for our lives so that it fits into |
| to the specifics, how can we know and begin to | | | | all the appropriate areas of our lives. If we over |
| develop our outcome? In order for us to look at | | | | generalize our outcomes we may find that they are |
| what your personal outcome is for your life and who | | | | inappropriate in some areas in our lifes. Think about |
| you want to become you need to think about your | | | | when, where and with who you wish to have this |
| desires for life and what you believe is a must have | | | | outcome. Do you want it in all places and without |
| be or what is a could have/be. To start thinking along | | | | limitations?v) Maintain appropriate secondary gain. All |
| these lines, do the following exercise with a pen and | | | | of our present behaviour provides us with some |
| paper and see what you can come up with.1. | | | | positive values and outcomes. It may not always be |
| Remember back to when you were young and when | | | | obvious but there will always be a positive intention |
| you were just starting to realise that your life is | | | | behind the behaviour for example a smoker will get |
| yours and you can direct it any way you like. | | | | some positive feedback from the experience of a |
| Remember the times that the adults in your life | | | | smoke despite its destructiveness on the body. You |
| would ask you what you would like to do when you | | | | need to ensure that your outcome would be |
| grow up. What was your answer? At the age of 7 | | | | desirable in your entire ecology or system. For |
| or 8 what did you want to do when you became a | | | | example ask yourself what would you loose if you |
| grown up? Think about it for a moment and see that | | | | achieved your goals? Would you loose any personal |
| small you thinking "Hmmm, what would I like to | | | | time for yourself? Would it hinder your relationships |
| do?".In your minds eye bring that image of what you | | | | with your family? Would you have to give up |
| wanted to do up close and make it bright and | | | | anything that you feel is important to have your |
| colourful, really see what it was that you wanted to | | | | success?vi) Build the needed resources. To have any |
| do. Take your time, for some this does not come | | | | desired outcome we need resources. If someone |
| easy. Once you have a large bright image of what | | | | cannot clearly imagine themselves having the |
| you wanted to do in your minds eye, think about | | | | outcome it is often an indication that they do not |
| what that job or role would have meant about you | | | | have all the require resources. What do you have |
| as a person. For example would it show you to be | | | | now and what do you require to achieve your goals? |
| caring, intelligent, humble or would it show you to | | | | Have you or anyone else you know ever done this |
| love people or that you are explorative and open | | | | before? Where can you find more information |
| minded? Take some time to list the things that this | | | | regarding your specific sensory based and well |
| job you wanted to do would say about you as a | | | | defined outcome?vii) Ecology check. In order to |
| person.Once you have a list of things written down, | | | | achieve anything in life you need to ensure that it fits |
| think how many other pursuits in life could lead to | | | | your entire system, your family, your work, your |
| having the same fundamental characteristics as the | | | | friends. Does it fit who you are or who you want to |
| job you desired when you were younger. What else | | | | become? Ask the following questions and think about |
| could you do to become that person that you | | | | your answers before committing to the results you |
| always wanted to become? How else can you | | | | desire: What will happen if you get it? What wont |
| achieve your lifes desires and goals and to truly feel | | | | happen if you get it? What will happen if you dont |
| fulfilled in yourself? To add more juice to the things | | | | get it? What wont happen if you dont get |
| coming into your mind right now try going through | | | | it?CELEBRATEBy now you should have a well |
| the second step in creating a well defined outcome | | | | defined, sensory based and ecologically sound |
| for your life.2. Now is the time to really let go and be | | | | outcome for your life. You already knew deep inside |
| silly. Use your imagination in this step like you have | | | | what you wanted but perhaps it has never been an |
| never used it before. Dont allow beliefs about how | | | | appropriate time to think about it like this before. |
| the world really works stop you from exploring | | | | Now you should go and celebrate. Congratulate |
| every avenue of life in this exercise.What I want you | | | | yourself and start dreaming about how you are going |
| to do now is to imagine that everything you do in | | | | to start your journey to building a new, totally |
| your life from now on will be 100% totally successful. | | | | satisfied and truly peaceful you.If you require any |
| Nothing will ever fail for you from this point onwards | | | | further help, please take the time to look through our |
| in your life. Now from this position of power, make a | | | | other articles as they cover a wide variety of issues |
| list of as many different things you would like to | | | | and they are free. We just want you to achieve |
| accomplish. What would you do, would you buy a | | | | your best and we know you are more then the sum |
| yatch and sail the world? Would you find a cure to a | | | | of your parts. We also have personal life coaches for |
| fatal disease? Would you make it your mission to | | | | those who are interested in taking their life to the |
| move towards world peace? Would you burn all your | | | | next step. |