| INTRODUCTIONThis article is used for | | | | excelling person who loves his/her life? |
| discovering our needs from life, our desires | | | | Write down all the things that you would like |
| for where we want to be and who we want to | | | | to do if everything you did was totally |
| become. Remember life is not about finding | | | | successful. List them all and leave nothing |
| out who we are but about creating who we want | | | | out. Nothing is too silly or mad or |
| to become, the things we will leave behind | | | | impossible for this exercise. What would you |
| with our team, our family and our friends.FOR | | | | do? Think about it. Write it down.3. So by |
| EVERYBODY?You may or may not be suprised to | | | | now you should have two lists and be able to |
| hear that not everyone in this world is | | | | see yourself doing them in your minds eye |
| always aware of how they fit into their | | | | very vividly and colourful and bright. If not |
| community or what they want to do with | | | | just spend some time looking over the lists |
| themselves. There are many people who have | | | | and practice seeing yourself already |
| such amazing minds and can accomplish so many | | | | accomplishing the things noted down. Notice |
| things yet they are never sure of what | | | | how the pictures look in your mind and how |
| direction in life they would like to | | | | that makes you feel.4. In this step you need |
| take.From our studies of excellence and | | | | to go through your lists and pick out just 5 |
| successful people we can see that each person | | | | things that will affect your life for the |
| who considers themselves to be successful and | | | | better. That will move you towards your goal |
| peaceful within themselves all have this | | | | of who you want to become and give you the |
| outcome for who they want to be in life. In | | | | results you truly deserve. Carefully consider |
| fact it goes a step further than that because | | | | each item and weigh up the time lines before |
| they not only know who or what they want to | | | | committing to it as a goal for your life. |
| become but they can describe it to you in | | | | Select just 5 things so that you can give |
| explicit detail. They have images and sounds | | | | complete time and energy and remain focused |
| in their minds that accurately show them what | | | | on pursuing your lifes outcome.This four step |
| they are going towards and with this they | | | | process will enable us to identify the |
| build a tenacious resolve deep inside to | | | | meaning of who we want to become and give us |
| become this all successful human being. Even | | | | the images in our minds of what life will be |
| before they achieve their successes, on their | | | | like when we have accomplished them. There |
| way down the road to their various goals they | | | | are some important factors when establishing |
| experience comfort and total peace of mind as | | | | our lifes outcome which need to be addressed |
| they are getting closer to that dream with | | | | if we are to remain juiced about it or stay |
| every passing minute.TRUE SUCCESSWalter | | | | motivated about it through the duration of |
| Disney is known as a famous cartoonist and | | | | acquiring the changes and the desired |
| for making Disney World and Disneyland. His | | | | results. These factors can easily be |
| dream was to become a cartoonist and he made | | | | remembered as follows:i) Stated positively in |
| his dream come true. Not only did it come | | | | terms of what we want. The human mind does |
| true but DisneyWorld today is one of the most | | | | not comprehend negatives. What do I mean by |
| renowned and spectacular cartoon producers | | | | this? Well for example try not noticing the |
| ever! That is the product of knowing your | | | | sensation in your stomach right now, or try |
| outcome. In fact not to long ago at a news | | | | not thinking of the colour blue. Its pretty |
| conference a reporter asked representatives | | | | much impossible because you first have to |
| of DisneyWorld what they thought Walt would | | | | know what it is you are not thinking about |
| have said about Disney World today. Their | | | | the then replace it with something else. The |
| reply was along the lines of - "What do you | | | | human mind works using positives so dont |
| mean? He saw it first!". They realised that | | | | state goals such as I dont want to smoke |
| it was all made possible because of one mans | | | | anymore. Rather state something like I want |
| dream and in that dream he saw exactly what | | | | to become a healthy vibrant individual with |
| he was going to produce - his very own Disney | | | | lots of energy and passion for life. Stating |
| World.Another example of this is Bill Gates. | | | | it this way and using this to form your |
| From the very beginning Bill always knew his | | | | images of your desired results will |
| personal outcome. He wanted to come up with | | | | drastically increase your chances of |
| some software that would be used to run every | | | | achieving your lifes outcome.ii) Described in |
| computer in the entire world. Some dream! Did | | | | sensory based language. Now that we have |
| he make it come true? Well I think we can | | | | stated our outcome in positive language we |
| safely say yes he did because MS Dos and the | | | | can now ask "What will I see, hear and feel |
| Windows operating systems have been | | | | when I have my outcome?". Doing this will |
| implemented on more than 95% of the worlds | | | | help us to realise when we have fully |
| computers. How amazing is that? He didnt even | | | | realised our desires for our life. Close your |
| come up with the software to begin with, he | | | | eyes briefly and see the pictures of what it |
| purchased the Dos system from IBM in the | | | | will be like when you achieve your desired |
| early days for little over 35, 000 dollars | | | | outcome. Listen carefully to your |
| and now hes the richest man alive. That is | | | | surroundings as you realise your goal and see |
| some by-product of one teenagers | | | | how that makes you feel inside. Doing this |
| dream.STRATEGYHowever, before we can see our | | | | will setup your nervous system to continually |
| lifes dream come around like our friends Walt | | | | look forward to achieving the goals and |
| Disney and Bill Gates, there is a need to | | | | drives you towards them until achieved.iii) |
| establish what our desired outcome really is. | | | | Self initiated and self controlled. Although |
| Where do we want to be? Who do we want to | | | | you can control your own mind and emotions |
| become? What is it in life that is really | | | | you cannot control those of others. So, for |
| that important to us? We need an answer to | | | | example, it would be futile to base outcomes |
| these questions to grow in life, its vital to | | | | on changing your spouse or parent(s). You |
| have direction in order to feel fulfilment | | | | must be in control of your desired outcome |
| and real satisfaction in your life.So lets | | | | and only you can know how and when to achieve |
| get to the specifics, how can we know and | | | | it.iv) Appropriately contextualized. We need |
| begin to develop our outcome? In order for us | | | | to build our outcomes for our lives so that |
| to look at what your personal outcome is for | | | | it fits into all the appropriate areas of our |
| your life and who you want to become you need | | | | lives. If we over generalize our outcomes we |
| to think about your desires for life and what | | | | may find that they are inappropriate in some |
| you believe is a must have/be or what is a | | | | areas in our lifes. Think about when, where |
| could have/be. To start thinking along these | | | | and with who you wish to have this outcome. |
| lines, do the following exercise with a pen | | | | Do you want it in all places and without |
| and paper and see what you can come up | | | | limitations?v) Maintain appropriate secondary |
| with.1. Remember back to when you were young | | | | gain. All of our present behaviour provides |
| and when you were just starting to realise | | | | us with some positive values and outcomes. It |
| that your life is yours and you can direct it | | | | may not always be obvious but there will |
| any way you like. Remember the times that the | | | | always be a positive intention behind the |
| adults in your life would ask you what you | | | | behaviour for example a smoker will get some |
| would like to do when you grow up. What was | | | | positive feedback from the experience of a |
| your answer? At the age of 7 or 8 what did | | | | smoke despite its destructiveness on the |
| you want to do when you became a grown up? | | | | body. You need to ensure that your outcome |
| Think about it for a moment and see that | | | | would be desirable in your entire ecology or |
| small you thinking "Hmmm, what would I like | | | | system. For example ask yourself what would |
| to do?".In your minds eye bring that image of | | | | you loose if you achieved your goals? Would |
| what you wanted to do up close and make it | | | | you loose any personal time for yourself? |
| bright and colourful, really see what it was | | | | Would it hinder your relationships with your |
| that you wanted to do. Take your time, for | | | | family? Would you have to give up anything |
| some this does not come easy. Once you have a | | | | that you feel is important to have your |
| large bright image of what you wanted to do | | | | success?vi) Build the needed resources. To |
| in your minds eye, think about what that job | | | | have any desired outcome we need resources. |
| or role would have meant about you as a | | | | If someone cannot clearly imagine themselves |
| person. For example would it show you to be | | | | having the outcome it is often an indication |
| caring, intelligent, humble or would it show | | | | that they do not have all the require |
| you to love people or that you are | | | | resources. What do you have now and what do |
| explorative and open minded? Take some time | | | | you require to achieve your goals? Have you |
| to list the things that this job you wanted | | | | or anyone else you know ever done this |
| to do would say about you as a person.Once | | | | before? Where can you find more information |
| you have a list of things written down, think | | | | regarding your specific sensory based and |
| how many other pursuits in life could lead to | | | | well defined outcome?vii) Ecology check. In |
| having the same fundamental characteristics | | | | order to achieve anything in life you need to |
| as the job you desired when you were younger. | | | | ensure that it fits your entire system, your |
| What else could you do to become that person | | | | family, your work, your friends. Does it fit |
| that you always wanted to become? How else | | | | who you are or who you want to become? Ask |
| can you achieve your lifes desires and goals | | | | the following questions and think about your |
| and to truly feel fulfilled in yourself? To | | | | answers before committing to the results you |
| add more juice to the things coming into your | | | | desire: What will happen if you get it? What |
| mind right now try going through the second | | | | wont happen if you get it? What will happen |
| step in creating a well defined outcome for | | | | if you dont get it? What wont happen if you |
| your life.2. Now is the time to really let go | | | | dont get it?CELEBRATEBy now you should have a |
| and be silly. Use your imagination in this | | | | well defined, sensory based and ecologically |
| step like you have never used it before. Dont | | | | sound outcome for your life. You already knew |
| allow beliefs about how the world really | | | | deep inside what you wanted but perhaps it |
| works stop you from exploring every avenue of | | | | has never been an appropriate time to think |
| life in this exercise.What I want you to do | | | | about it like this before. Now you should go |
| now is to imagine that everything you do in | | | | and celebrate. Congratulate yourself and |
| your life from now on will be 100% totally | | | | start dreaming about how you are going to |
| successful. Nothing will ever fail for you | | | | start your journey to building a new, totally |
| from this point onwards in your life. Now | | | | satisfied and truly peaceful you.If you |
| from this position of power, make a list of | | | | require any further help, please take the |
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