Burial at Sea - A Peaceful Way to Say Goodbye

Burial at sea - Ash Scattering - is an increasinglyat sea (ash scattering over the water).
popular option for families when saying goodbye to1. Scattering directly from the container received
loved ones. Not only is it an environmental friendlyfrom the cremation facility - The ashes are poured
alternative to traditional burial and rich in nauticaldirectly into the water on the down wind side of the
tradition, it is also a much less expensive alternativeboat. With this type of scattering it is necessary to
to traditional burial. It is often chosen when the lovedbe careful that the ashes land in the water and do
one had a special connection to the water (boating,not get blown back or stuck to the side of the
swimming, etc.)yacht. This method is only appropriate when you can
Servicesget close to the water.
Services are varied and are usually conducted by the2. Scattering with the use of a bio-degradable urn -
family, sometimes with the captain of the vesselThese urns are specifically designed to gradually
saying a few words such as "Commitment to thedisperse the ashes back to the sea. A water-soluble
Deep". Formal clergy is usually not present but mayurn will usually float for several minutes then slowly
be present if desired by the family. The ceremony issink and then degrade or melt into the sea. The
conducted, music is often played and the ashes arefamily will often toss flowers or petals as a final
then scattered in the selected manner. In keepingtribute as the urn slowly drifts away on the current.
with nautical tradition, a ship's bell is struck eightIt provides the family with a "going into the sunset"
times. This signifies the end of the watch - the onscenario.
duty period of a sailor's life at sea.3. Scattering from a basket/container - The loved
Scattering ceremonies may be performed at anyone's ashes are placed in basket/container with rose
location selected by the family, usually a location thatpetals placed on top. The basket is then lowered to
is relatively quiet in terms of boat traffic and waterthe water surface and the basket is inverted. The
disturbances. Recording the GPS position where therose petals float on the surface and the ashes
ceremony takes place also makes memorable tripsdisperse in the ocean. Keepsakes - Retaining a
possible. This information may be used to create aPortion of the Remains
memorial certificate which can be sent to the familyAlthough burial at sea is a beautiful way to say
a few days following the ceremonygoodbye, some families will also choose to keep a
A burial at sea without remains is also possible and asmall portion of the ashes as a keepsake. Keepsakes
memorial service can be performed and/or flowerstake many forms such as small urns, teddy bears,
placed in the water. Although not strictly a burial atjewelry etc. Clients are often surprise at the myriad
sea, it does provide the family and friends with aways remains may be retained.
form of closure to aid in the grieving process.Summary
Burials at sea may also be done for a beloved petThe percentage of families choosing cremation is
which has passed. Their loss is also very traumaticcurrently just under 40% in the United States and as
and must be grieved.this continues to increase, so will the percentage of
Methods of Performing Water Ash Scatteringfamilies choosing burial at sea.
There are three common ways to perform a burial