Find Your Why For More Happiness

Good day.say perfect? Well, you know what I mean. Maybe
Are you disappointed in the results you're gettingperfect for us, since we aren't perfect either...
with the whole "law of attraction" mindset? Does itYou say you want to be financially comfortable.
seem as if you try to stay focused on what youWhat does that even mean? Enough money to get
want every day, but after awhile you just kind ofby? Enough to buy a yacht? How about putting
forget what it's all about, and go back to your oldsome serious thinking into the kind of lifestyle you
ways and habits?want, and then figuring out what kind of income it
Maybe you just need a bigger "why" in order to staywould take to get there. Or, if you really hate your
really in line with what you want in life. What do Ijob why not try to do something about it - like take
mean by that? We all need to find out what wea college night course, invest in real estate, start a
want in life, whether it is something spiritual, financial,business, move to a country where it's much cheaper
relationship oriented, or related to another topic weto live? There are many ways to live a better
hold dear. This seems to be the biggest question inlifestyle, but just wishing for it will never make it so.
the world of motivation - what exactly do you want?Figure out exactly what you want, then make a plan
Many people when asked that question get a puzzledto go get it! I know I must have heard that
look, and seem to say "isn't it obvious?" They recitesomewhere before.
the same things that are repeated over and overThe truth is that whatever you really and truly want
such as 1) I want a meaningful relationship or 2) Iin life can be yours, but you have to define it first.
want lots of money, or 3) I want to be comfortableAnd you really need to know why you want it, to.
in my life, without all of the worries that plaque me.Make a picture, or find a picture, of the perfect place
Ok, fair enough. But can you be a little more specific?you want to live. Write down exactly what you want
Bringing things into your life is a process, and for thatin a person to share your life with. Find out what
process to work you must be very specific! Also,would really make you happy and then go out there,
why do you want those things? How will it make youwith every ounce of energy you have, and find a
feel every day?way to make it happen. When you wake up each
Ok, so you want a meaningful relationship - withday, it should be the first thing on your mind, if not
whom? Have you taken the time to figure out whatthen maybe you don't want it badly enough.
the person of your dreams will be like? Not looks, butThe truth is we all need to find our "why", what it is
actual personality, interests, intelligence, education,that will really get you going every day. And don't
spirituality, goals, habits, attitude, health level, familyjust wish it, take action every day and go after it!
values, etc. There are so many things that go intoYou will find that making it real in your mind, down to
having a meaningful relationship, that we rarely sitthe very last detail, is a great way to make it real in
down and make a list of the most importantperson. Do it now, find your "why" before it's too
attributes that our perfect mate should have. Did Ilate.