Travelling With Friends

ther used to say visitors were like fresh fish, greatlover who also takes a little turn towards birds
for the first two days, OK for the next day but that– we are in this category, my wife and I
they start getting a little hard to bear on day four, aswatch birds, we do this in most places, we log them
for days five and onwards, the fish or theand we enjoy spotting the different birds in each
friends….a little hard to bear!region. We love climbing into a hide or securing a
Now try spending two weeks, in one four-by-fourquiet spot, perhaps with a glass of Chardonnay, to sit
doing the “Botswana” or other safariand watch. We do not however need to spend
“thing”… as passengers in afifteen minutes at each bird, particularly if it is the
friend’s car, my wife and I looked forward totenth example of the exact same bird on that
a stunning experience with two of our best friends.particular game drive! To cut quite a long story short,
Planning was fun with us enjoying many a meetingby day three, when I had stopped to see a Superb
gathered around maps on the table, lists detailingStarling for the umpteenth time we were quite ready
packing methods, food and equipment, list upon listto never see another bird ever, and I mean ever
developed and added to around eventful eveningsagain! Have you ever experienced real claustrophobia,
sharing good food and fruits of the vine. What for Ithe fear of closed or confined spaces? Well let me
call a friend, we have known each other for manytell you, that was the smallest four-by-four that ever
years, shared fun and laughter and know each otherstravelled Botswana, every time I was in the mood to
good and bad points, personality failings and deepestgaze over a waterway to watch a family of Hippo
secrets, that kind of friend is who I refer to in thisfrolicking about with the young males play-fighting,
context. To put this differently, forgive me if I overperhaps even a bird or two, we were allocated about
elaborate, we were all four, ready willing and able tothirty seconds tops and then whisked away to
head for the savannah together with no hesitation.another Superb Starling or similar.
Going back to my mother for a moment, we onceThank goodness our friendship is and was so
did the caravan “thing” with anothersufficiently strong we could deal with this, an
family in a large caravan with supporting tents andagreement in the evening limiting a five minute stop
spent two weeks in the rain, needless to say thatand only for a first sighting or at least a good sighting
was my mothers first and last camping trip. Movingwas soon agreed and the four of us ended up
on to the present, the day arrived and off we went,sharing that can only be described as the holiday of
the first and last days being dedicated totally toour lives, made possible through friendship and trust.
travel, via the exciting metropolis of Maun and intoSo much for the happy ending, how can you ensure
what can only be described as one of the mostthe same thing when on a combined holiday:
wonderful of all the last remaining natural wonders of• Most importantly, select a destination and
Africa.friend carefully; repeat carefully, to ensure all of you
Dare I digress again but with names like Moremi;have the same expectations and desires for your
Third Bridge and Savuti rolling of one’sholiday enjoyment.
tongue, if one can put to one side the exorbitant• Obviously, the friends would not be
prices and the few acceptable facilities one shouldclassified as such if you did not share similar interests
normally expect, this is top of the pops, bite thein food; people; the environment; fun activities and
bullet, pack well and head for Botswana, it’sthe like. Make sure they are really friends, do you
worth it.know them well, make sure you have been on the
Our bookings along the way, and I meanodd weekend away before you commit to
a….long the way, we started out in thesomething like the trip mentioned above or perhaps a
Eastern Cape which necessitated sleeping over a fewyacht cruise or similar confined quarter.
times, accommodation organised with thanks to• Agree everything in advance, where are
… at last we finally arrived.you staying; what are the costs; who is responsible
Our friends are fanatical bird watchers….nowfor what.
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